Monday, August 14, 2006

Sublime and profane

Maisie got her ears pierced. Liam stood between her legs, arms wrapped around her, ear to her chest, eyes squeezed shut. "Maisie..." he groaned when the Claire's clerks squeezed the piercing guns and she started. She's so happy--keeps reaching up to touch them; casually tucks her hair behind her ears when we go out. Last night she hugged me from her bed and whispered, "I feel complete now." A landmark on the path, I guess. A foothold.

This weekend we had our family reunion: all my mother's siblings and their spouses and kids. A sea of Irish political energy--I love these people. A few Indian families came, too. The Irish and the Indian fit so well; all that colonial history and literature and activism: generations of resistance directed at the very same place. The kids played baseball on the lawn that grew over the buried pool, and flew rubberband airplanes, and ate too much pudding. I drank too much sangria. Heaven.

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Geopolitical Diary: Revisiting Core Assumptions (from stratfor.com)
The world's focus right now is on the cease-fire deal in the Middle East. We think that's the incorrect focus. The real focus should be on an earthquake that has shaken the region: Hezbollah's forces, even if they are defeated by Israel in southern Lebanon, will have shown themselves capable of mounting an effective resistance for an extended period of time. The Israelis have not been able to deal them a single, sharp blow and fragment them.

A single assumption has shaped Arab-Israeli relations since 1948: that Israel could decide, if it wished, to resort to war and impose its will on Arab armies. That assumption shaped all political considerations in the region. If Israel is no longer capable of doing that, it follows that a range of political assumptions also are untrue. Consider Jordan: Since 1970, Israel has been the guarantor of Jordanian national security. Consider Egypt: Since Camp David, Egypt has refused to engage Israel militarily. Both of these political certainties have been based on a military certainty -- and if that dissolves, so does everything else.

8 Comments:

Blogger mckait said...

yay ! I am happy for Maise! I remember how happy my Amy was..
( then there were the boys, but that is another story.. ) Liam is so sweet it gives me goosebumps.. what a sweet brother!

a milestone indeed..

your reunion sounds fun! and sounds like you enjoyed it.. that is wonderful and amazing to me.. i am afraid of most of my moms family! LOL

happy monday to you, Inger

10:51 AM  
Blogger sjobs said...

Congrats on the earrings.....

Kiran has two different in. It hurt to change the first one so she refuses to let us take the other one out. The kid is crazy.

It sounds like a fun time at the family reunion. Life around here is to damn quiet.

Mary

3:33 PM  
Blogger Dr. Deb said...

I can't believe you had your annual family reunion again.... seems like it was yesterday. I hope you have a wonderful time.

4:17 PM  
Blogger alan said...

Would love to have been a mouse in the corner listening to you all!

As far as assumptions go, we all know what happens when you "ass-u-me" anything in this world!

alan

2:47 AM  
Blogger taza said...

ah, she is complete now. that's good! maybe a picture or two of her new acquisitions?
i have 7 holes, one of which i did myself with a needle and a cork (and an ice cube, of course). it wasn't fun. i love claire's!

11:12 AM  
Blogger CrackerLilo said...

Awwww...they're both so adorable!!!

If I could have sangria at my family's reunions, there would be some improvement.

10:58 PM  
Blogger Sublime said...

God! I want to adopt your kids. Or, better yet, can I send my son to stay with you for a few years so he can learn about the inner-peace you've taught your children?

7:47 AM  
Blogger nancy =) said...

i know i commented here before...i hate it when my words go *poof*...

anyhoo, i'm so happy for maise...i so remember the big claire's event with my own daughter back in the day...and my adorable liam - oh, pure love that child...

i envy you that you can enjoy yourself at a family reunion...maybe someday i'll learn to let go of all my family shit...

love you, darling...

peace...

2:29 PM  

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