Soup and Handbaskets
Maisie comes home on Satuday, and tomorrow I'm heading into the city to meet up with a friend of a friend, here on business from India. I felt a little bad that I didn't invite her to stay here with us, but, well, I didn't. She's the co-author of a book that criticizes the international adoption industry and its impact on kids and vulnerable women, especially. I'm right there; I'm a convert, as you know. But when you look at me, before you talk to me, I'm just a white woman with an adopted brown kid at my side, and that's the scene she rejects. So I'll be watched, and so will Liam, and I guess I could leave Liam here with someone but I'm sort of into truth these days--to baring it, to just being, without apology. Isn't life just soupy? Cheesy oniony soupy?
I just pitched a story to a magazine about nontraditional families in small towns--gay, single, multigenerational, adoptive (well, the latter's getting mighty mainstream, I know). They accepted. Now I have to write it. I should be two people: the one who opens the doors and the one who walks through.
Lester came back today to fix a fitting on the barn. It was a little high up and heavy, so he brought along some help: his 92-YR OLD BROTHER! I'm going to hell.
9 Comments:
you go through that door, woman =)...beautiful babies you've got there...peace...
You go with pride and know that you are an amazing woman. I told youhow I feel about people who adopt children.. any children.. they are HEROS they are those among us who love unconditionally, truly unconditionally..
Like you.. like so many others..
I wonder why skin color matters? I don't think it does.. I think love matters.. and being cherished..
Go with your huge heart, gentle spirit and warrior woman stance!
Hope you and Liam enjoy the day..
as for Maise on saturday ...
HOORAY!!!
I am happy for this
Lester and his brother.. wish I had their genes!
I don't believe in Hell.. I think you're safe!
This week 6 and I have been taking the bus and subway together to get to work (her designated pick up spot for camp). I have noticed some 'interesting reactions' from some people (particularly women) of colour. Some feel that white women should not raise children of colour - that we will not provide them with a cultural identity or reference. 6's birthmom was white. She probably gets more exposure to her cultural heritage than she would have if not part of our family.
I try to ignore the feeling I get from disapproving strangers. My 2 are happy, healthy and loved. We are not colour blind. We celebrate diversity.
Congrats on the writing opportunity. Hope to be able to read the final product!
LOL at that last paragraph!
One world, one people. Get over the color thang, y'all. My view.
My son is biracial and beautiful. Did you see "Bulworth"? Warren Beatty rapping about "we'll just keep f***ing 'til we're all the same color!" Ha.
Right there with what everyone else said Inger. You are an amazing woman (even though it might not always feel that way).
And apparently, there's something mighty good in the water up there, so drink up and maybe you'll live to be 92....lol.
I think I have got it...
skin color is different from person to person, but I am pretty sure that hearts, and love are the same color universally..
now if we could just get the word out
Hey Inger...Great news about the article. I'm with MGH..please let us know where we'll be able to read the article!
Hope you had a good meeting and you have a great weekend!
STB
92 year old brother! Did he get up on a ladder???
lmao
Hey, do you guys know Annie? Did something happen to her blog? I clicked on my grey matter oozings link...but ended up with a different person I think. Someone contacted me ..but I don't think it was the Annie I usually read so I was vague in my response.
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