Friday, June 24, 2005

42 days and counting

Well, Maisie's gone south again--the annual summer thing--6 weeks of it--with her Dad in Baltimore. It's getting easier; in the beginning it was like my heart was ripped out and flung down the highway with her. But this is the third year, and he's relaxing a bit, and Maisie's older, and Liam--well, he still has a hard time, missing her. But we're better than we were. So there's hope, see? For all of you who struggle in shitty relationships without a court-ordered parenting agreement, I tell you now: go and spend the money and get one, because there's almost assuredly more peace after than there is before.

Thought I had more to say. Going to hang with Liam, and eat Haagen Dazs, 'cause the glass of wine didn't do the trick. Oh yeah, I'm just fine.

3 Comments:

Blogger mckait said...

Oh ! how hard it must be to send your baby away for weeks! You are very strong to be able to do it.. and I hope the time passes well and happily for you both

I just want to say how much your encouraging posts on my blog have meant to me..

i find myself wishing for neighbors in so called real life, like i have online..

we could have some wine.. Guinness etc ( I make a mean Irish Car Bomb) and shore each other up!

liam? love that name.. maisie too!
i have used that name as an alias on a site :)

Hang in there! being a mom is not for the faint of heart, is it?

4:07 PM  
Blogger taza said...

Hi Inger, I'm here via McKait's blog. Love your posts, but your font is SO tiny, how would you feel about enlarging it just a bit for us myopics?
Drop into my blog if you've a mind to, I'll be back to read more of yours!

7:26 PM  
Blogger cathie said...

It must feel like an eternity. I can hardly get through a sleepover at Grandma's!

Hope Liam enjoys his one on one time!

11:12 AM  

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